Question
I am a terrible binge eater, which is sabotaging my weight loss. I can gain 2-3kg in one day. The next day I feel bloated, uncomfortable and guilty. I know that bingeing doesn’t take the emotions away, what can I do to stop?
Answer
Next time you think you are going to binge, stop, and sit down and write why you want to binge and what you are feeling at that moment. This will assist you in sorting out your emotions and finding out what is causing the binging. Try and phone a friend, go for a walk, have a bath, give yourself a manicure – to delay the binge. It is best not to eat until you calm down. I have two rules: Never eat when you are not relaxed, and never eat standing up. Everything you eat goes on one plate. When you do decide to eat you have to eat like a “lady”. Use a knife and fork which will slow down the eating process. If you do binge don’t get guilty as this results in days of overeating, rather get on track immediately by eating normally the next day – not starving, as this will lead to more bingeing. Deal with your emotions by either going to consult a professional, exercise, yoga, meditation, or rationalising your own feelings (if you can). Try and be with friends or family when you are feeling low so that they can give you the necessary support.